Anderson Cooper’s Commencement Speech @ Tulane University, 2010.

While I don’t remember commencement, I do remember my senior year of college feeling paralyzed, because I thought I had to figure out my future all at once.  Pick a career, start down a path I’d be on for the rest of my life.  I now know it doesn’t work that way. Everyone I know who is successful, and by successful I mean happy in their professional or personal life, every successful person I know could never have predicted when they graduated from college where they’d actually end up.

I’m not saying you should take it easy and just see what happens. You need to outwork everyone around you. You need to arrive early, stay late, you need to make yourself indispensable - you should also probably get rid of those Facebook photos of you passed out on Bourbon Street.

But as you consider what to do now, you shouldn’t necessarily feel that your next step is the most important one you’ll ever take. It’s not. You will go down many paths that go nowhere. Especially you English majors. You will try things on and realize they don’t fit. And that’s how it should be. Learning what you don’t want to do, is the next best thing to figuring out what you do want to do.

Pearls of wisdom.

wishing4theworld:

You tried so hard to be the person everyone wanted you to be. Maybe you should’ve just been the person you wanted to be.

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Last night’s 6am.. epiphany

Everyone needs a sun to gravitate around. It’s like an addiction- a sweet short falling completely head over heels moment, and then it’s over just like a sunset. 

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"Missing someone isn’t about how long it has been since you’ve seen them or the amount of time since you’ve talked. It’s about that very moment when you’re doing something & wishing they were right there with you."

(via eeeemmatee) (via afgavinstan) (via sarahwindy)

probably just every second of my life? nbd. so lonely lately. (via dilaudid)

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